Erotic sex is a pretty big topic, and we talk about it all the time. Whether it’s the latest erotic adult toy in the stores, the latest legislation regarding erotic sex work, or the erotic sex positions we want to try, we’re always talking about it. Check it out! We can’t get enough of erotic sex, but there’s one question we always have to ask… Who knows more about erotic sex? If you ask people whether men or women know more about erotic sex, you’ll get wildly different answers. Some people believe that men are the ones who know what happens in bed, and that’s because they’ve studied it and worked hard at it, while others believe that women know the most when it comes to erotic sex… so who knows? About the most erotic sex? Are they men? Are they women? Or are we all the same when it comes to what we know and don’t know about erotic sex?
Talking about erotic sex
Many people love to talk about erotic sex. We love to gossip about the latest research that’s been published and what it means for our erotic sex lives, and we never get tired of talking about our latest experiences in the bedroom. After all, sharing is caring, right? But many people change their minds when it comes to erotic sex in the bedroom. Sure, they might enjoy talking to their friends about the hot, sexy women they met, but when they enter the bedroom, they get silent and don’t want to talk about it. For some reason, it’s OK to talk about erotic sex outside the bedroom, but it’s OK to talk about what you like about erotic sex when you’re in the bedroom.
That doesn’t mean we all do that. Many have learned that you can only get what you want in the bedroom if you ask for it. We can’t read minds. If you don’t tell us what you want in the bedroom, we don’t know. We’ll kiss and lick and poke while you stay quiet, hoping that divine providence will tell us that what you want is to have a finger in your ass while we have oral sex.
But many people find it hard to open up in the bedroom. They feel that it’s wrong to talk about their desires, and women, in particular, find it difficult to speak of erotic sex. They know what they want but are afraid to say it out loud. Men, on the other hand, seem to be more willing to admit it… but does that mean they know more about erotic sex and their desires because they have had the opportunity to experiment and try new things?
Writing about erotic sex
There are a lot of hot erotic stories to read and jerk off to, each one more detailed than the last. Erotic stories are popular right now, and we love reading them to get new ideas and use our imagination while touching ourselves.
Even so, there aren’t that many male writers of erotic novels, and it seems to be quite unusual. Most of the stories you read are written by women, and one erotic publisher says that’s simply because women are better at writing about erotic sex and all the dirty details that come with it. A man runs the Independent publisher Badlands Unlimited, but all the erotic authors it publishes are women.