We all have a deep desire for sexual dating intimacy that we want to explore in the bedroom. We so desire it, but often, we don’t know how to ask our partner for it. How do you bring up the topic of “I’d love for you to give me a foot job” without your partner running away in fear? Here are some super simple things you can do to start talking about your ultimate sexual dating fantasy. Each of these things will help make it a reality. Here’s what you can do to make your sexual dating fantasies a reality.
Have you ever had a sexual dating?
This may sound like an extraordinary suggestion, but you should have a sexual dating before you discuss what you want to do in the bedroom.
First of all, a sexual dating relaxes you both. Reaching orgasm and sharing pleasure reduces some of the stress and anxiety, allowing you to relax and talk about the things that matter to you.
It’s also said that after a satisfying sexual dating, people are much more open to conversation. Even after the high has worn off, they’re more likely to want to talk about all the sexual dating and naughty things you want to do.
Start small
One of the worst things you can do when talking to an intimate partner is blurt out what you want to say. Saying, “Please fuck me with a strap-on,” can scare him or make him look for a straitjacket to hold you back. You need to start small to soften the blow.
How do you do that? Think about what you want. For example, if you know you have a foot fetish and want to indulge in it, tell your partner, “You look great in these shoes.” You can work your way up from there.
If you want something more complex that’s easy to bring into the conversation, like a spanking from your partner dressed as a teacher, you should approach it more carefully. Try to steer the conversation to a teacher you had a crush on in school and find common ground with them. Can they garner the same stern stares that turn you on? If you tell them, they will probably do it.
Give them time
Don’t push them to do it if you have talked to them about it and they mean what you said. It might take them some time to sort things out for a sexual dating or to do some research and figure out the best way to give them what they want.
Instead, give them space. Give them time to think and work out the details. They may prefer to do their research and devise a plan to surprise or delight you.
If they come to you wanting to talk more about it, don’t pressure them into anything. Again, give them time here. Let them do what they want and tell you what feels well and what doesn’t. In the long run, it will help a lot.
