We have never been in a time when we can explore our sexuality and be open about it as freely as we are today. Although this erotic sex culture is becoming more and more accepted, it is still taboo in certain environments, and not everyone can deal with it.
However, when talking about erotic sex, people can usually talk about men having erotic sex and women having problems. But in fact, men can also encounter certain problems in today’s erotic sex culture.
Men have unique difficulties with erotic sex, and based on these difficulties, we can divide them into two very large categories: those who have difficulty understanding it and those who have difficulty getting pregnant.
Men who can’t understand
Although women are more likely to regret erotic sex than men, there are still many men who don’t want to have sex. Whether these men are not interested in erotic sex at all or are interested but lack the courage to ask for it is not the point here.
The reasons why people avoid erotic sex are varied and different for each person. However, there are some similarities, so let’s take a look at them.
Social stigma
When we talk about erotic sex, we women usually associate it with the social stigma that comes with it (more on this later), but men also have to deal with certain aspects of it. It is generally more acceptable for men to indulge in this kind of sexual activity, but they are strongly criticized for it. Many men are ashamed of their sexual behavior, and while close friends may call them “playboys” in a positive sense, others who hear the word may think differently. After all, what “good girl” would want to live with such a guy? No one wants to get into a serious relationship with someone who might cheat on them.
Unfortunately, cheating and erotic sex don’t go hand in hand, but no matter how freely we explore our sexuality and enjoy sex just for cheating, this kind of cheating will always be there. Some men just don’t want to deal with it and choose to avoid erotic sex.
Erotic Sex
Erotic sex has a huge impact on how we think and act. It determines our daily behavior, regardless of our gender, sexual preferences, zodiac signs, etc. A sense of what is right and what is wrong is instilled in childhood, and once we form a certain opinion about our worldview, it is difficult to change it.
Today, erotic sex culture is becoming more popular and accepted, but it is important to remember that this was not the case before, in fact, not until very recently. Older generations were taught that sex, especially sex before marriage, was bad, and they tried to pass that belief on to their children. Some people reject this belief, others do not. Even those who completely reject these teachings may find it difficult to indulge in erotic sex. In theory, they are all for it, they know all the benefits that come with erotic sex, and they certainly have the logic behind it, but they just can’t seem to put it into practice and do it themselves.
Many men and women wake up with regret the next morning, and the source of that regret is none other than the way we feel about erotic sex.
