Adult sex is not a committed relationship, but it is a form of relationship between partners who have sexual experience. And like every aspect of social interaction, adult sex also has rules that must be followed.
These rules are a kind of agreement that both parties need to agree to enjoy adult sex and a sexy mood at night. Without it, you are more likely to experience undesirable situations that lead to dissatisfaction and social stigma.
The rules are just based on the usual things about adult sex. Think of them as a natural part of a sexual culture that exists to provide safe and enjoyable adult sexual experiences.
For a sexual relationship to be a real experience for adults, it requires two mature people and a lot of rules. Express your needs and desires, think clearly (no alcohol or drugs), and act with discretion so you don’t get overwhelmed by emotions. These are just some of the rules to follow to give adult sex momentum and maintain pleasure.
Think of it this way – adult sex gives you a lot of pleasure, but it requires you to sacrifice some things that you normally wouldn’t sacrifice in a long-term relationship. Here in the land of adult sex, some of the essential things in a relationship are taboo. That’s not a bad thing. In both cases, you have to create some kind of equilibrium, a state of equilibrium. You lose something to gain something.
Know what you’re getting into
The biggest and most important rule in adult sex is to know that it’s not a romantic relationship. The person you end up spending the night with is not someone who puts you first, that’s a fact.
There’s a reason why you two met on a dating site: they want nothing more than to have a night of fun. There’s no room for romance or shared plans. He or she is not a partner you can trust and count on above all else. Your partner can sleep with whomever he sees fit. He doesn’t have to call you now and then. They become resentful easily. Participating in adult sex without knowing what your partner thinks about it is bound to have disastrous consequences. Do you think that’s too strict for you? Well, it’s true.
But if you’re aware of what not committing means and understand what it means, accepting the first rule can bring you closer to the satisfaction that adult sex offers.
Once you’ve sorted out your nightly commitments, you two can start laughing and enjoying your time together.
