Playing in the shower is a lot of fun. The warm water feels great. The steam helps you relax. You have total privacy. Plus, washing off afterward is very easy. But using toys in the shower is very different from using them in bed. Water changes everything. It makes things slippery. It changes how your body feels. It can even ruin your toys if you are not careful.
Many people grab a random toy and take it into the water. This usually ends badly. The toy slips out of your hands. The suction cup falls off the wall. The battery dies because water got inside.
You need the right tools for this job. You need shower sex toys that are built for wet environments. This guide will show you exactly what to look for. It will help you buy the right toys, use them safely, and keep them clean.
The Biggest Mistake You Can Make
There is one mistake that ruins more toys than anything else. People do not know the difference between water-resistant and waterproof. Water-resistant means a toy can handle a splash. Maybe a little water hits it while you wash your hands. That is fine. But you cannot put it under the shower head.
Waterproof means the toy can go fully underwater. You can drop it in the tub. You can hold it under the running shower head. No water will get inside.
If a toy does not say “100% waterproof” or “fully submersible” on the box, leave it out of the shower. Water will leak into the motor. The toy will stop working. Worse, a wet battery can be dangerous. Always check the label before you get in the tub.
The Suction Cup Problem
Most shower sex toys use a suction cup. You stick the cup to the wall. This frees up your hands. It sounds very simple. But in real life, it rarely works perfectly.
Cheap suction cups fail. They cannot hold up the weight of the toy. They fall off the wall as soon as you start moving. This is very frustrating.
A good suction cup needs to be soft and flexible. It needs to be able to bend and press flat against the wall. Hard plastic cups do not work well.
You also have to think about your shower wall. Suction cups love smooth glass. They stick perfectly to glass shower doors. They also stick well to very smooth tile.
But many showers have bumpy tile. They have small grooves. Air gets under the suction cup, and it falls right off. If your tile is bumpy, try sticking the toy to the tub floor instead. Or, press the suction cup against a smooth glass shelf in your shower.
Types of Toys That Work in the Water
Not every toy belongs in the shower. Here are the types of shower sex toys that actually work well.
Suction Cup Dildos: These are the most popular choice. They have no motors to break. They are made of solid silicone. You stick them to the wall or the tub floor. They stay exactly where you put them. Just make sure the base is wide, and the cup is thick.
Waterproof Vibrators: If you need vibrations, you must buy a high-quality waterproof vibrator. Look for toys that charge with a magnetic cord. Magnetic chargers do not have holes. Holes let water in. If your vibrator has a plug-in charging port that clicks shut, check the reviews. Sometimes those ports leak.
Handheld Shower Heads Never forget the shower itself. A handheld shower head is an amazing toy. You can change the water pressure. You can point it exactly where you want it. It never runs out of battery. Just make sure the water is not too hot before you point it at sensitive areas.
Small Air-Pulse Toys: These are small toys that use air rather than vibration. They are usually very quiet. This is great if you share a bathroom with roommates. Bathrooms echo. Loud motors can be heard through the door. A quiet air-pulse toy solves this problem. Just make sure the brand says it is safe for the shower.
The Golden Rule of Shower Lube
This is the most important rule of shower play. Water is not a lubricant.
It feels like water should make things slippery. But it does the opposite. Water washes away your natural body oils. It makes your skin feel sticky. If you try to use a toy in the shower without lube, it will feel bad. It can even cause tiny scratches on your skin.
You must bring lube into the shower with you. But you have to pick the right kind.
If your toy is made of silicone, you can only use water-based lube. Silicone lube will melt a silicone toy. It will ruin it forever. Water-based lube is safe, but it washes away fast in the shower. You will probably need to put more on a few times. Keep the bottle on the edge of the tub so you can reach it easily.
If your toy is made of glass, metal, or hard plastic, you can use silicone-based lube. Silicone lube does not wash away in the water. It stays slick for a long time. This makes it a great choice for long shower sessions.
Staying Safe on Wet Floors
Safety comes first. Bathrooms are dangerous places. You have hard tiles, wet floors, and slippery soap. When you are distracted, it is easy to slip and fall.
Put down a rubber bath mat before you start. This gives your feet something to grip. If your shower has a built-in bench, use it.
Be careful where you put your toys. Do not balance them on the edge of the tub. They will fall and break. Do not leave lube bottles where you can step on them. Keep everything on a stable shelf.
Take your time. There is no rush. Move slowly so you do not lose your balance.
How to Clean Your Toys
Just because you use a toy in the shower does not mean it is clean. Shower water is not enough to wash away body fluids or lube. You need to clean your toys after every single use.
Wait until you are done showering. Take the toy out of the water. Wash it with warm water and gentle soap. Do not use heavy bathroom cleaners. Bleach and strong soaps will ruin the material. Use basic unscented hand soap or a special toy cleaner.
Pay attention to any textured areas on the toy. Rub the soap into the grooves with your fingers. Rinse it off very well. Make sure there is no soap left on it. Soap residue can irritate your skin next time.
Drying and Storing
Drying your toys is just as important as washing them. If you put a wet toy away, it will grow mold. This is very bad for your health.
Dry the toy with a clean towel. Make sure you dry the suction cup completely. Then, let it sit out on a towel for a few hours. Let the air dry any spots you might have missed.
Once it is totally dry, put it in a drawer or a bag. Keep it out of direct sunlight. Sunlight will damage the material over time. If you have silicone toys, do not let them touch each other in the drawer. They will melt together. Keep them in separate little bags.
Conclusion
Playing in the shower can be a wonderful experience. But you cannot just bring any toy into the water. To sum up this article, remember these key points:
First, only use toys that are 100% waterproof. Water-resistant toys will break. Second, pay attention to suction cups. Make sure they are soft and stuck to a smooth surface. Third, always use lube. Water makes things dry and sticky, not slippery. Use water-based lube on silicone toys. Fourth, put down a bath mat so you do not slip and get hurt. Finally, wash your toys with soap after you use them, and let them dry completely before you put them away.
If you follow these simple steps, your shower sex toys will last a long time. You will stay safe and have a much better time.
